šš„The art of financial domination, the sacrifice of giving
Financial domination is about far more than just taking the cash. Itās about sacrifice. Itās about power exchange. Itās about control .
For many financial domination is a natural progression from other fetishes. From the genuine desire to please in every in any way possible.
When having a Findom session with somebody, I feel itās good to warm them up. Kind of like foreplay. Financial domination foreplay is important. You canāt just go straight in there demanding large amounts of money. Especially to those you donāt even know. Part of being a good Domme is being able to read a submissive and what makes them tick. Then you can decide the best way to use, abuse and manipulate them in a way that is enjoyable for both Domme & sub. Once you know how to make them weak, you can begin your mission. Tempting them, teasing them, seducing them into submission. Making them worship & obey you as you command, humiliate & deny them. Teaching them how to please you, giving them new fetishes and often a whole new lease of life
Some people that come to me donāt have a financial fetish , but still LOVE to treat Me.
Findom itās not at the top of my favourite fetish list. However itās something Iāve indulged in many times and something I enjoy. For me financial domination is just a natural progression for a well-behaved, obedient pet who wants to do everything they can to please Me and make My life more comfortable. A genuine submissive craves this more than anything and gifts are just a natural part of this. If youāre a good Dom, A good teacher and a good leader, they enjoy giving the gifts as much as you enjoy receiving them.
I am not one of these people that doesnāt believe in showing gratitude. I like to smile, I like to say thank you, I like to reward good behaviour. I like to do my own thing and I do not just follow the crowd. They follow Me. I have my own ideas on how to do things and I find they work very well for me.
I think one of the reasons I have success in domination and in financial domination is because I donāt reek of desperation like some people do. Itās so cringeworthy when people beg or grovel for money, complain that nobody is sending them gifts, or chasing owned or uninterested pets for tributes and tips . š¤¢
Iām a very lucky lady who gets to do what she loves. I have a collection of dedicated, long-term loyal pets and a successful selection of pages. Iām lucky that I donāt need or rely on financial domination and I donāt NEED more pets. Iām very lucky that these things come along naturally to me . I think this is because people can tell that I have a genuine enjoyment of my fetishes and of all of the fun that I share on my page. I donāt need your money, but I still allow you to give it to me anyway. Thatās the truth of the matter. Anyone who follows me know this this is true.
Every gift I receive means something to me. The big ones, the small ones and everything in between. The big spenders impress me, but they are not exclusively my favourite pets. A couple of my favourite pets are actually some of my poorest. If a Sub sends a small gift because itās all he can afford, it is a bigger sacrifice and those who can afford to send a large gift. So it kind of evens it out a bit. If a pet has a very eager to please attitude, this goes along way
So itās not just about the money for me. It is about the power exchange, the sacrifice and the enjoyment. All gifts are appreciated. š
When itās done properly, Findom fetish is mutually reawarding for both the dominant and submissive. Much like foreplay, you should start off slow & sensual. Build it up. Increasing the level of seduction with each escalating command. Testing their boundaries. ā¦Carefully! One wrong move & all your good work could be wasted. Much like domination, knowing what to say and do , when to do it and when to hold back is a talent, you either have it, or you donāt. Everyone can make mistakes, but those who donāt bother to get to know their submissive and go for one size fits all approach, tend not to have the delicate touch required to help a submissive reach their potential in servitude, and indeed in financial servitude. Also Timing is everything